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Returning Home a Better Person

By Caleb SeamonAugust 9, 2016 Leave a comment

Camp Ultimate Peace has ended after months of fundraising, a week with campers, and multiple days spent in transit. I am currently on the flip side of the largest adventure I have ever been on. Sure, I’ve had only 16 years of adventures, but I can’t imagine Camp UP ever leaving the top of my list.

As I’m positive has been the case for every administrator, coach, Leader In Training, and staff member, the days following the end of camp have been emotional. While each day felt packed and long, the week flew by. Every minute of every day I was immersed in loud cheering at mealtime, complex secret handshakes, laughter, meaningful discussions, and the playing of Ultimate. Just within my team of twelve campers I witnessed strangers become roommates, teammates, and friends. As a Leader In Training I helped lead my team discussions, cheers, dancing, and drills. The real attachment I felt for my campers became apparent when the buses left to bring the Arab-Israeli, Jewish-Israeli, and Palestinian campers home.

I feel myself repeating what I have heard countless other coaches and LITs say, but it truly amazed me to see the hugs, tears, and exchanging of contact information that came on the final day. It seemed like every camper was on the lookout for their teammates, coaches, LITs, club leaders, or anyone they had come across throughout the week to sign their shirt/hat. It was a welcomed frenzy, because it is what camp is all about: creating an oasis of peace and friendship.

I initially wanted to share an individual moment or story that would embody what Camp UP felt like, and what it meant to me. Using this story I could pass on my unforgettable experience to those who weren’t there. Thirteen hours of flying back to the states with a six hour layover gave me more than enough time to think about which moment I wanted to share. I got nothing. I had no one moment that surpassed all others. I continuously ran the week through my head, and constantly I smiled to myself as I thought of proudly standing on my chair at dinner and yelling my team’s cheer. Or when my team, as one, performed a choreographed dance to the entire camp. Or when two girls from different communities hugged and said a tearful goodbye to each other. Again, I got no moment that stood alone as the best or the most representative of my week. And then I realized how that in itself is what made Camp UP 2016 so special.

There have been moments in my life where the only way I could describe the smile on my face was pure and genuine happiness. Until this month all of those moments stuck out individually because such genuine moments occur so occasionally. The same cannot be said for my week at Camp UP. It is hard to separate one genuine moment from another, because such moments bled together and occurred with such frequency. This is why Ultimate Peace is special. Without realizing it every member of camp leaves the other aspects of their own lives at the entrance. What they do bring in is their smile and their dance moves.

Out of everything, this is the most important aspect of my life that has changed because of camp. With the magic of the Ultimate Peace program as a catalyst, I returned home with a greater ability to genuinely connect with people regardless of previous misconceptions about them.

I returned home a better person.

Are you there, Ultimate Peace? It’s me, Michael

By Michael Van NessJuly 18, 2016 Leave a comment

Someone once told me that some relationships are just weird: ultimate and the people who play it for instance. Ultimate takes the health of our knees, our backs, and our bank accounts. But sometimes takes us halfway around the world to chase great adventures!

As I write this I am sharing the beautiful campus of Kfar Silver with an ultimate-crazed family over 100 strong about to be swarmed by close to 300 campers who are even more crazy about ultimate than we are, and it is good. Welcome to Camp Ultimate Peace 2016!

There has been so much information to process the last two days of staff training I have hardly had time to reflect and process all of it. There is culture and history to be learned, schedules to be memorized for each day of camp, activities to be planned from sunrise to sunset each day, protocol to be memorized, and relationships to be built. There is much to do and hardly enough energy to do it all!

Unfortunately, since landing in Tel Aviv, I have been fighting against the voices in my head that tell me that I am not good enough, that people do not like me, that I am unworthy of love and acceptance. They are born of being tired and afraid, a long way from home, and lonely. They are a cesspit and steal energy from the joyful task of preparing to welcome our campers! None of these lies has any foundation in the ideals of UP, nor any place at our camp!

Anyone familiar with UP knows our five values: fun, friendship, mutual respect, integrity, and non-violence. A value less apparent on our banners, but no less vital to the health of the mission, is unconditional acceptance. And, for as much integrity and non-violent passion as I have witnessed from the staff and administration, and for all the fun I have had and the many friends I have already made, nothing stands out more to me than the unconditional acceptance I have received from co-workers of all backgrounds since arriving.

But here, now, we are not from all of those different places and spaces on our passports. All the voices and the noises, the violence and the chaos, the chatter, clatter, and hubbub of our daily lives has been muted in the serenity of Kfar Silver. Here we are family. We belong. We belong because we are here. Because we showed up and opened ourselves up to others for the sake of peace.

To be here is to be accepted, to fit in, and belong because you have a family at UP. And that, friends, is a very weird and wonderful thing.

Different Stories, One Narrative

By Dani GlassJuly 17, 2016 Leave a comment

I decided today that I was going to spend time this week talking to campers, finding out some of their favorite camp moments to write about and to use as a springboard to discuss the larger themes emerging from those moments. It took me all of maybe two minutes of interacting with staff after coming to that decision to realize, why not staff too? Their experiences are important to highlight as well; they may be different than the campers’, but not only are they just as valuable, they amount to the same ends: Love, peace, friendship, and connections. I’ll be exploring this project much further as campers arrive and begin to experience Ultimate Peace, but I asked myself why wait?

What struck me most as I talked to staff members about the memorable moments they’ve encountered at camp (well, orientation) so far, I saw that my question about a memorable or meaningful moment caught them off-guard, but they always had an answer. When asked about a memorable or meaningful moment from the past two days – not a particularly long time – each one of them spoke thoughtfully and from the heart, and they became visibly more…I’m not sure exactly what. Each and every person seemed to light up as they reflected on a moment that meant something to them, as they remembered something someone had said that stuck with them. And I realized that just as important as the stories they were telling was the way they told them. One Middle Eastern LIT told me she was feeling anxious, even lonely, as some of her Ultimate Peace peers from her community weren’t able to come to camp this year. She told me that the first night, she found some of the other LITs – people she has learned, grown, and become close with – that she was feeling alone and she needed their support. Their response, even told second- (and now third-) hand, brought a smile up from my heart. She told me that they reassured her, with enthusiasm and empathy, that they had her back. That they were there for her. That they were in this together and she was a part of their family.
The words they told her were full of unconditional love, support, and acceptance. And just as beautiful as their words were, so was her retelling of the story. When she began, giving me the background, I could tell it was beginning to weigh heavy on her. But when she described what her peers – friends – family – had said, I could see a weight visibly lift off her shoulders. She smiled her glowing, beautiful grin and that told me even more than her words how much their support had meant to her. And every side – the asking, the giving, and the receiving of support is exactly what we hope to accomplish with Ultimate Peace, and, with proof, exactly what we are accomplishing.
I also talked with a returning staff member, a seasoned Ultimate player and father. He described his “moment” to me as one of both protectiveness and letting go. He had met an Ultimate player several years ago and talked with her about Ultimate Peace. They hadn’t talked much since, but she arrived at camp this year and he immediately felt a sense of protectiveness over her, because of the friendship they had formed several years ago, however brief it had been. He used the term, “paternal” to describe how he felt, which to me spoke to his kind nature as well as the nature of Ultimate Peace itself. We take in those who are new to coaching, the region, the game, other cultures, and everything in between. This staff is a protective one; we look out for each other and we protect each other. We work for each others’ successes and pick each other up when we need encouragement.
During an orientation session, some staff members were simulating a conversation we will have with our campers later on in the week. He told me that this particular staff member volunteered to be a part of the conversation, and from her first step onto the stage he knew she had found her place; he knew that she was comfortable and he trusted the other staff members enough to let go. That moment, taken into a bigger picture, speaks to the values that we as a staff stand for. The pride in his eyes as he reflected on her participation and on the staff’s open arms shone brilliantly.
I talked with a new staff member next, who hadn’t experienced camp or this particular region before. One moment that struck her was during a conversation about what the Middle Eastern members of our little oasis of peace face outside of this oasis. Earlier in the day, one Middle Eastern member of our staff talked about how his involvement put a strain on an important relationship in his life. Someone he is very close to is not supportive of his participation in Ultimate Peace, and that’s a reality he has to face every day. His honesty about it struck this new staff member, and made her think about what it would be like to be in his shoes: to be a part of something so meaningful to you, and have someone close to you question your involvement in it. Outsiders to the region, myself included, cannot understand what these campers and LITs go through in their daily lives if family members or friends are not supportive of Ultimate Peace or their commitment to it. That moment gave her, and us all, an insight into how important this organization is to the youth we work with, which gives us all a feeling of responsibility to them and respect for them. That moment helped us to see, concretely, how important this experience is, and how much love goes around to keep us working together, to keep us successful, to keep us moving forward.
What comes from these stories is not three separate instances; what comes from these stories is all part of the same narrative: one of support, trust, respect, connection, love – the list could go on. These moments may be vastly different in context, but the qualities they show all add into one unified mentality. And the passion and pride with which our staff members speak about these moments only adds to the purity of the qualities they themselves possess.

Camp Ultimate Peace 2016 is off and running, and we’ve got a heck of a group to lead it.

Monologues from Stu

By Stu DownsJuly 17, 2016 Leave a comment

Returner Stu Downs reflects on the first day back at it, thinking about seeing faces both new and old, and embracing the love and commitment we share here at Ultimate Peace.

Celebration and reconnection. Reconnection – what does it mean? To an aging has-been like me, it’s a refreshment of energy instilled by the idealism and passion emanating from so many gifted and willing participants in the UP mission. That’s what it’s like for an administrator or a coach. For the Middle Eastern coaches and LITs, viewing the influx of optimism on day one reminds all of the many people who care about what is going on, and all who are appreciative of the daily efforts of those who give so much to the year round program. For the Middle Eastern LITs, this is confirmation of these travelers’ dedication to the cause and to the local young people who maintain their training regiment all year. For the American LITs, they witness the impressive network of talented, devoted, and loving Ultimate folks. They can see it in their bright eyes and warm embraces. It is contagious to new members, to shy teenagers. Suddenly you’re hugging a stranger you just met. You even allow this old fat bearded dude to wrap his paws around you. Where back home is this not creepy? You realize he and everyone here cannot help themselves; we are celebrating all we’ve done and all we are going to do, so you hug back. The warmth of each smile and the strength of each hug reminds every coach, every administrator, every young person – regardless of what adjectives describe us: Jew, Arab, Christian, none of the above, male, female, neither, young, old – it reminds us all of the mutual appreciation we share and the deep impact we’ve had on one another.

If I Throw a Disc from a Mountaintop

By Dani GlassJuly 15, 2016 Leave a comment

A disc goes up into the air, and nobody sees the end of its flight. Does it land?

I’ve recently been thinking about the relationship between trust and control. I like to think (perhaps those who know me will tell a different story) that I have a positive relationship with control. Sometimes it tries to take over me, but then I remember to trust: to give the benefit of the doubt, to assume the best of others in (or maybe after) a frustrated moment, and to ultimately believe that what is coming out of my own mind isn’t necessarily the absolute truth or the foolproof plan.
It is recently that I have made the conscious decision to work on trusting. I’m not exactly sure in whom or what I should put it, but I’ve decided nonetheless. I don’t mean school or work collaborative projects where some members pull more weight than others. I mean big picture, “put-yourself-out-there-and-blindly-hope-for-the-best.” Fear of disappointment doesn’t stop me in my tracks anymore. We all learn the hard way to say what we feel while we still have the chance, to take advantage of the time we have on this earth, to be brave and say the words we’re afraid to say. I’m not claiming to have perfected this idea. I’m claiming to be working on it: to choose trust rather than control. To control is to know. To trust is to wear your heart on your sleeve. To trust is to be willing to accept that it may end up far from perfectly but you refuse to let that possible ending deter you from taking a chance at an amazing one. I won’t lie; it’s backfired on me, left me with nothing but tears and a box of tape and glue with which to put myself back together. I won’t lie, it’s not always pretty. But the lightness, the happiness, that comes from accepting vulnerability and embracing the unknown is unlike anything I’ve ever felt before.
Trust and control go hand-in-hand. There is gray area, certainly, and there is overlap, but the two often butt heads. To be in control is likely to be comfortable, while trust can be terrifying. I won’t bore you with my life story, but it’s been on my mind and now, here at Ultimate Peace, I wonder about it in a camp context. More specifically, our camp context. An Arab kid who has never met a Jew comes to Ultimate Peace willing to trust that she’ll be safe and happy even though she’s interacting with people she may have never understood or even met before. A Jewish kid comes to camp willing to trust that his Arab teammate will throw him the disc even though they don’t speak the same language, come from the same community, or have the same background.
For me, that’s what trust is about. For me, that’s what being willing to give up control is about. I’ve learned more than I could ever possibly express from these amazing teenagers we work with at camp. But perhaps the most meaningful impact they’ve had on me is their willingness to give up control and to trust. To realize that they might be on a team with people whose language they don’t speak, whose culture they don’t understand, whose history has clashed with their own. It strikes me every year what an incredibly brave thing they do simply by coming to camp, and each year I take it a little bit more to heart. Each year, I come home more determined to be vulnerable and to embrace the uncertainty of trust.

If I throw a disc from a mountaintop, and I can’t see anyone down below to catch it, is it doomed to lie in the valley forever? Or can I trust that someone, someday, will find it, will pick it up, will grow to love it as I had?

All I know is that camp is starting in a couple days. And that means new co-coaches, new LITs, and new campers – new people in whom to place my trust. But I’ve seen everyone working to set up this little oasis of peace, as we like to call it. And I can’t think of anyone I’d rather stand on that mountaintop with, together letting a disc fly.

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